In some ways, women are a bit like Labradors: if you say the right things
in an appropriate tone of voice, they’ll do what you want. Alternately,
women also have the potential to be like caged lions, and if you piss
them off and are dumb enough to stand around, they’ll rip your head off.
For that reason, we want to highlight some of the things that women
love to hear and show you how certain phrases can consistently be used
to score major points. Of course, the last thing we want to do here is
spew out a list of platitudes that every guy knows women never get sick
of hearing. Instead, we'd like to suggest some alternative phrases and
the reasons why they are so effective.These are not pickup lines; they’re phrases meant to be used on a girl you already know. Perhaps you’ve been dating and you want to take things to the next level. Or maybe it’s even a long-term girlfriend and you’ve been going through a rough patch. You might even be a bit worried that she’s losing interest and is starting to look around for something else. Whatever the case, the following is meant to give you an idea of different ways to verbally press her buttons by saying things women love to hear.
Generally, the things women love to hear can be placed into four categories: compliments about her appearance, words confirming your commitment to a future together, verbal displays of territorialism/jealousy, and questions that demonstrate an interest in her life.
Give compliments
The comedian Chris Rock said that women need three things: food, water and compliments. So, it’s not a matter of women just wanting to hear compliments, they actually can’t live without them. If they don’t get them, they might even shrivel up and die. If you can periodically reel off a nice compliment and genuinely mean it, don’t hesitate to do so because the benefits will come back to you in spades. However, be careful not to flood the air with empty flattery, as even the most attention-starved girl will see through your seduction strategy and call you out.Examples of things women love to hear:
- “You look incredible.” It’s simple and effective. Every girl wants to hear this, particularly when she has gone to some trouble to look nice.
- “Those jeans look great on you.” This is a polite (and obvious) way of telling her that she has a nice ass.
